Divorced or Separated? We Can Help!
We’re a friendly, caring group of people who will walk alongside you as you go through a divorce or separation. Our DivorceCare group is facilitated by a registered professional clinical counseling associate.
When: Wednesdays from 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. for 13 weeks: February 21 – May 16
You are welcome to begin attending your DivorceCare group at any point. Each session is “self-contained,” so you do not need to attend in any sequence. You will be able to pick up any sessions you missed in our next 13-week cycle.
Where: Center For Enriching Relationships' South Bay Counseling Center, located at 484 E Street, Chula Vista, CA 91910 (at the east end of the Refinery Church campus)
Group Facilitator: Anika Garcia, MA, Intern Registered Professional Clinical Counseling Intern PCCI 2314. More about Anika.
Registration Fee: $40 (workbook included)
To Register: https://www.divorcecare.org/groups/91386
Separation and divorce are some of life’s most painful and stressful experiences. It’s a confusing time when you feel isolated and have lots of questions about issues you’ve never faced before. Our DivorceCare group meets weekly to help you face these challenges and move toward rebuilding your life.
Each session has two distinct elements:
A Seminar with Experts
During the first 30–40 minutes of the meeting, each DivorceCare group watches a video seminar featuring top experts on divorce and recovery subjects. These videos are produced in an interesting-to-watch television magazine format featuring expert interviews, real-life case studies and on-location video.
A Support Group with Focus
After viewing the video, DivorceCare group participants spend time as a support group, discussing what was presented in that week’s video seminar and what is going on in the lives of group members.
1. What’s Happening to Me?
This introductory seminar helps answer the question, “Why do I feel the way I do?” You’ll come out of this session with an overview of the DivorceCare program and an appreciation for the benefits of a support group environment.
2. The Road to Healing/Finding Help
This segment helps you begin to identify the many losses that occurred as the result of your divorce. It also introduces strategies you can use to begin the process of healing from your separation or divorce.
3. Facing My Anger
This seminar deals with the subject of anger, a nearly universal response to the pain and stress of divorce. You’ll gain constructive suggestions for dealing with your anger and learn methods for responding to the anger coming from your ex-spouse.
4. Facing My Depression
Depression can be a paralyzing emotion as you go through divorce. Even so, it can also be a “healing emotion,” and this seminar explores constructive responses you can employ to deal with depression.
5. Facing My Loneliness
After divorce, many people respond to their loneliness in ways that will cause them even deeper pain. This segment explores healthy ways to overcome the loneliness that will inevitably arise during your separation or divorce.
6. What Does the Owner’s Manual Say?
This session explores real-world answers from the Bible on issues related to separation, divorce and remarriage, presented in an easily understandable format.
7. New Relationships
The loneliness that comes with divorce will put you at risk when making decisions about new relationships. This session helps you determine whether you are ready for a new relationship and how to get it off on the right foot if you are.
8. Financial Survival
Most people are stretched financially during divorce. This video segment offers you practical help on how to survive and ways to deal with the many money issues that you’ll face during and after divorce.
This session helps you understand the effects of divorce on your children and offers practical suggestions for being an effective single parent. You’ll also learn how your children are processing the divorce and how you can help in their healing.
10. Single Sexuality
How do you deal with your sexuality after divorce? This important session will help you understand sexuality from God’s perspective and see that it is possible to be single again and satisfied.
The hurt that comes with divorce is a barrier that prevents many people from forgiving their former spouse. This seminar shows you why forgiveness is important and how you can begin the process of forgiving.
Reconciliation is one of the most misunderstood aspects of the divorce healing process. You’ll learn that reconciliation can happen even if your marriage is not restored and why it’s important to pursue reconciliation.
13. Moving On, Growing Closer to God
How can God produce something good out of something as bad as divorce? This segment will show you how to grow closer to God as you go through your divorce experience.